Railroad Suicide Prevention - Persuade
How to Persuade
- ListenÌýto the problem
Ìý - Seek to understand the problem
Ìý - Suicide is not the problem, it is a solution to a problem
Ìý - Do not judge
Ìý - Offer hope
Ìý - Normalize feelings
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Say:
- "I want you to live."
Ìý - "I’m on your side."
Ìý - "I’m willing to listen."
Ìý - "We can get through this."
Ìý - "I can help you get help."
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Ask questions:
- "Will you come with me to get help?"
Ìý - "Will you let me help you get help?"
Ìý - "Will you talk with me about other possible solutions?"
Ìý - "Will you promise not to kill yourself until we have exhausted all avenues of help?"
Ìý - "Who else might help? Family? Parents? Brothers? Sisters? Clergy?"